Professional Submissive
According to my Fetlife, I joined some time in 2013.
My interest in kink had been around since well before then, but that’s not of relevance here hehe. Before the year was out, I’d fled an abusive relationship and moved to Melbourne. Before two weeks of 2014 had passed, I had attended the first of what would be many kink events.
I was cute, 22-going-on-23, and vivacious. I’d been curious about kink for longer than I care to admit, and now? Now I was THERE and ready to try it all. Sub-frenzy took over, and I did as much play with as many people as I could. Naturally, this was not sustainable.
But I sure learned a hell of a lot. I developed a decent reputation in the scene, someone that was a great communicator in-scene, who understood her body and how she processed pain, and I was down to try so many things. It was not uncommon to be at one of these parties and have one of the staff come up to me and say “hey Charlotte, we’ve got some newbies here. They’d like to learn some spanking/impact play/wax play/electroplay—would you be our crash test bottom?” That is, people needed to learn, and I provided a willing and enthusiastic body, great and clear communication, and little bits of advice from the perspective of the bottom.
At another point in my life, I actually entered into a BDSM contract wherein I was to be formally trained as a submissive. I did not complete this contract for a variety of reasons, but none to do with inability and more to do with “oops I fell in love with someone…”. But those few months taught me so much about being submissive and deepened my connection to that part of me.
I’ve taken breaks from kink before. For about a year, I was entirely unable to process pain, which destroyed my confidence within kink. I also took a bit of time away from things when I moved overseas to study in a small town with no kink scene.
But the love of kink has always been there, and still is.
And frankly, at this point, I think I’m pretty damn good at doing some kinky shit >:)
So finally, I am going to start advertising my professional submissive services with the respect and care that they deserve. I’ve been offering a “kinky gfe” service for the past year before realising in recent months that I’d like to offer a third service. I am confident in my skills as a submissive provider, in my ability to give you a great time, to communicate clearly, and to show that I am having a genuinely fantastic time with you.
Now, if you’re a GFE client who is fretting that I don’t or won’t enjoy our times together—rest assured, I always enjoy my GFE bookings! I don’t offer services I don’t enjoy, and I genuinely really, really love doing my GFE and kinky GFE bookings. The kinky GFE service still remains also—but now, for those of you wanting to play with a professional submissive… well, send me a message ;)